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What happened during an abortion ... an abortion doctor's testimony!
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An aptitude is an innate component of a competency to do a certain kind of work at a certain level. Aptitudes may be physical or mental. Aptitude is not knowledge, understanding, learned or acquired abilities (skills) or attitude. The innate nature of aptitude is in contrast to achievement, which represents knowledge or ability that is gained.
An attitude is a hypothetical construct that represents an individual's degree of like or dislike for something. Attitudes are generally positive or negative views of a person, place, thing, or event— this is often referred to as the attitude object. People can also be conflicted or ambivalent toward an object, meaning that they simultaneously possess both positive and negative attitudes toward the item in question. ATTITUDE vs APTITUDE There are two things you can do immediately to deal with the fear of rejection, criticism and disapproval. First, realize and accept that the opinions of others are not important enough for you to feel stressed, unhappy or over concerned about them. Even if they dislike you entirely, it has nothing to do with your own personal worth and value as a person. Second, refuse to be over concerned about what you think people are thinking about you. The fact is that most people are not thinking about you at all. Relax and get on with your life. |
This fear of rejection manifests itself in an over-concern for the approval or disapproval of your boss or other people.
The fear of rejection is often learned in early childhood as the result of a parent giving the child what psychologists call "conditional love. Rise Above the Need For Approval Many parents made the mistake of giving love and approval to their children only when their children did something that they wanted them to do. When the child become adult, this adult employee can then become preoccupied with the opinion of the boss. This preoccupation can lead to an obsession to perform to some undetermined high standard. Avoid Type A Behavior Doctors Rosenman and Friedman, two San Francisco heart specialists, have defined this obsession for performance as "Type A behavior." Experts have concluded that approximately 60% of men and as many as 30% of women are people with Type A behavior. Don't Burn Yourself Out - Putting too much pressure on yourself to please others. |
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