For Counseling use
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Prayer before they come.
Open with Prayer Introduction - Church attended - Married since ... - Children ... etc - we facilitate the session - Problem will have to be resolved by YOU - our testimony Rev 19:10 At this I fell at his feet to worship him. But he said to me, “Do not do it! I am a fellow servant with you and with your brothers who hold to the testimony of Jesus. Worship God! For the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy.” Fact Finding (Listen more, Talk less) - What is the problem - Do you agree? What do you think? How do you respond to what is said? - Where is the Problem - Who is the problem - Since when it started Work out your agreement - Write it down - Write Positive Thoughts about each other - What is the purpose of coming to counselling? - What changes are you willing to make! - Insanity is to do the same things and expect different results! - The Truth is " You cannot change another person" - but you can change yourself! - and you can do it NOW! Immediate results! Action Plan - Follow up actions for next meeting update/review - A-Continue doing; B-Stop doing; C-Start Doing (Change of Lifestyle) Prayer for Forgiving each other Prayer for protection - Holy Spirit to guide in their life together After session - Pray for cleansing and protection |
Communication
- 4 Horsemen Forgivenss - Benefits of Forgiving - Set the prisoner free (YOU) - what science has discovered - It's a commandment - Fear God, Obey His Commandment - Being a Christian - Confess with Your Mouth and Believe in Your Heart (There is a connection) - Fear God and Disobey His Commandment? (Toxic Faith/Love) - Hormones are released Faith - come by hearing - Faith without deeds is useless (Need to take action!) Best Gifts for Children - Mother loves Father, Father loves Mother - don't compromise - collaborate! TMC - a guide to Restoring broken Relationship 1-Covenant (No one forced you - CHOICES); 2-Relationship and Trust (without Trust, there can be no relationship); 3-Roles of Husband/Wife; (Jesus and the church) 4-Power of Influence (Toxic Thoughts - Dirty Dozen); 5-Hurts and Disappointments; (Toxic stuffs) 6-Conflict resolution and Unity; (Invite God into your solution-make a CHOICE/willingness to work out differences - Toxic Choice) 7-Romance and Intimacy; (Toxic Schedules, Toxic Seriousness -anti fun) 8-Breaking Curses in the Family (Who told you - Detox your mind) Worrying / Anxieties What does the Bible says? - Obedience is better than sacrifice - should apply to Husband/Wife relationship - and the Children wins too! |
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