Stage of Development	Approach to Life	Developmental Need	Parenting Approach
Early Childhood (0-5 Yrs)	DEPENDENCY	BONDING	Decision-Maker
Childhood	EXPLANATION	Goal-Setting Develop Platform	Director
Adolescence	EXPERIMENT	Discussion Widsom	Coach
Early Adulthood	APPLICATION	Mentor Encourager	Consultant
Above : You are the Parent
Below : You are their Friend
Adulthood	INTER-DEPENDENCY	Peer Relationship	Peer

Decision 2 : Raise LEARNERS and LEADERS

Q : What is one of the trait you would like to see developed in your child's life bu the time he/she is 18 years old?

Kids who develop character are :

• LEARNERS - attitude to learn something new every week

• LEADERS - in their circle of influence, they watch where they are going; not just follower of the crowd

• LOVERS of God - love God because they love God!

Parents implement "Privileges" and "Responsibilities" - do this get this, do that get that!

Decision 3 : Things to Work Out of your kids

• Short Sightedness

• Rebellion

• Laziness

• Sensuality

• Selfishness

Decision 4 : Things to Work Into your kids

• Genders - Boys and Girls need to be parented differently

• Birth Order

• Learning Style - Auditory (Hear) / Visual (See) / Kinesthetic (Do)

• Love Languages

• Motivation base on Personality (Lion (Motivated by Control / Otter (Motivated by Attention) / Retriever (Motivated by Acceptance; Respect) / Beaver (Motivated by Structure; Order)

Decision 5 : Pass on your Purpose