Health & Wealth

Josh McDowell - Rule without relationship = REBELLION


Decision 1 CHANGE Your Parenting as Your Kids Grow Up

Stage of Development

 Approach to Life Developmental Need Parenting Approach
Early Childhood (0-5 Yrs) DEPENDENCY BONDING Decision-Maker
Childhood EXPLANATION Goal-Setting
Develop Platform		 Director
Adolescence EXPERIMENT Discussion
Widsom		 Coach
Early Adulthood APPLICATION Mentor
Encourager		 Consultant
Above : You are the Parent
 
Below : You are their Friend
Adulthood INTER-DEPENDENCY Peer Relationship Peer

Decision 2 : Raise LEARNERS and LEADERS

Q : What is one of the trait you would like to see developed in your child's life bu the time he/she is 18 years old?

Kids who develop character are :

  • LEARNERS - attitude to learn something new every week

  • LEADERS - in their circle of influence, they watch where they are going; not just follower of the crowd

  • LOVERS of God - love God because they love God!

Parents implement "Privileges" and "Responsibilities" - do this get this, do that get that!

Decision 3 : Things to Work Out of your kids

  • Short Sightedness

  • Rebellion

  • Laziness

  • Sensuality

  • Selfishness

Decision 4 : Things to Work Into your kids

  • Genders - Boys and Girls need to be parented differently

  • Birth Order

  • Learning Style - Auditory (Hear) / Visual (See) / Kinesthetic (Do)

  • Love Languages

  • Motivation base on Personality (Lion (Motivated by Control / Otter (Motivated by Attention) / Retriever (Motivated by Acceptance; Respect) / Beaver (Motivated by Structure; Order)

Decision 5 : Pass on your Purpose

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