Perfect Love casts out all fears! No Fear = No Tear!
 Resist temptation, and it will flee from you!

 Aromatherapy

WARNING
Visiting this webpage may cause you to
  • "Lose All Your Prides",
  • "Act in Humility",
  • "Ask For Forgiveness",
  • "Stop All Those 'Unfair To Your Spouse' Activities",
  • "Become Sober",
  • "Reconciled To Your Married Partner",
  • "Receive Blessings From Everyone Around You - Especially Your Children",
  • "Be Responsible"...

    If you have the courage to do All Of The Above, read on...
 

Learn about LOVE

Background
You are really concerned about your children. They may be ill-disciplined, with bad companies, out of control...you felt you needed some miracles. You are looking for solution, one of which may be a good Parenting course. You are on the right track, but may we suggest you look at your marriage (Father and Mother of your precious children) and figure out if you are good parents?

Ah, this page is not really about Parenting. Being good parents are fruits from good marriage. You are having an affair...Affairs that take your focus away from the partner you married. If you are really concerned about improving relationship, 1st with your spouse, then with your children, you have come to the right place. Read on...
 

contact Francis/Dorothy (WeCare2Listen) at info@wecare2listen.com
 

COMMON SAYINGS - To Be Smart!

 We start as fools and become wise through experience...only if you are smart to learn.

 When the blind leads the blind, both shall fall into the ditch...are you with the wrong company?

 When elephants fight, it is the grass who suffers...when parents divorce, the children suffers, and the real LOSERs are "All of You in the Family". Heard all these before?

It's time to share every details of you life with your spouse. There should be no secret between the 2 of you. What you need is 'knowledge' (TMC); and effective COMMUNICATION.

Well, have you consider :

1.

Talking to your spouse about improving your relationship (Physical, Mental, Emotional, Spiritual)
 
2. Understand the Purpose of Marriage
 - My friend says, those people who have Marriage problem don't need counseling
 - What they need is "Training"
   - Why you marry (Purpose)
   - How to stay married (Taking care of each other)

Those who need counseling are those who are trained and have difficulties implementing what they have learned!!

P.S. You may disagree. That's fine. You may be the one having the Marriage Problem!

Consider people you know having financial problem. What do they really need! More money?
 

3. Re-examine the marriage vow (You promised to take care of each other whether rich or poor, good health or in sickness...till DEATH do you part.

Those present when you exchanged the vow may be
 - your parents
 - your friends...
 - the person representing the Law (definite)
 

4. God says : "I Hate Divorce!" - Malachi 2:16   >> click

What does this mean to you?

1 Peter 3:1 Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives,
 
1 Peter 3:7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

It simply means : Be a team (a good partnership, equal partner, each has a specific role to play) and be good team players so that you will score for your children as well as yourselves (your household)!
 

5. Ask, Seek, Knock for the training and counsel.

If you try hard enough, surely you will find success.

KNOWLEDGE is Power! KNOWLEDGE of the Truth is greater Power.
 - your private investigators are merely gathering
information so that you think you can bare the cheating spouse.

If both of you have the KNOWLEDGE to begin with, why do you need 3rd party like the PIs, or your in-laws, colleagues, etc, to do the dirty work?
 

6. Perhaps this is the place (among many good places) where you will find the Key to Unlock the mystery of Happy Marriages.
 

Read on, we don't believe you have come to the wrong place!

 

 - There is someone waiting for you, to tell you about the goodness of staying married.
 - Francis and Dorothy have proven to all of us that even as Asians, they are not inhibited by the strong cultural stigma of only keeping such valuable sharing to themselves.
 - They strongly believe in sharing the goodness they have received.
 - Don't let this valuable gift (much more worthy that all the Gold and Silver) slip by you.
 - Live courageous lives, seek first His kingdom and righteousness, and all these things will be given to you...don't just work hard, work smart.
 

 
Someone really wants you to stay married, and enjoy the marriage, and it is not the devil, who gets a "D" for being evil!
D +

evil

= Devil

Your Children need you as much as your spouse needs you.

 

Marriage Vow - till death do us part! Marriage is for Life!

however, the world and the lies....

 Marriage - Separation - Divorce

>> OR <<

Marriage - Separation - Reconciliation

>> and the ideal <<
(you did not married the wrong person)

Married for Life

Francis and Dorothy Chong made their choice - Freedom to choose, The Choice to Forgive :
a gift from God [LOVE] !

 
A painful journey. One which they wished they had avoided.

If you think there is no way out, perhaps their testimonies, written with painful reminders; not for profit; but to share the gifts they received from God.

As Asians, it is not common to share such taboo information about our lives. However, there comes a time when someone will rise up! If we are witnessing an African American to be President of the most powerful country on earth (20th Jan 2009); we trust that All Thing Is Possible!

Only with courage, support from friends and families, and the peace and comfort from God is this book possible!

No, they are not dead! They are living life to the fullest now, with a 13 years old son. Thank God for the courage of the young boy who has the strength given to him...

 
  YES! There Can Be

Thank God for 2nd Chance for our mind to be renewed and transformed. Mercy, Grace and Compassion included!
 

 
Available for S$12 in bookstores. Help to spread HOPE for those in needs. Encourage those who are lost, betrayed by the one they once love so much. Perhaps a call to Francis and Dorothy will bring back the reminder of the Marriage Vow made at Registry of Marriage.
 
 
Are you WILLING to enjoy your marriage?
Do you have courage to face Truth?
Below is the conversation between the religious leaders (Pharisees) and Jesus :

Matthew 19 (click to read NIV)

3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?"
4

"Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,'

5

and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?

6

So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

Don't let 3rd party or any party to come in between your relationship.

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The TRUTH will set you free!

Both Francis and Dorothy conduct counseling for those who need help in their marriages,
and facilitate TMC - The Marriage Course.

 
If you would like Francis and Dorothy to speak at your event,
contact them at :
email : dandf1609@yahoo.co.uk

BOOK PREVIEW



 

SINGAPORE
Statistics on Marriages and Divorces
For full report   CLICK

Statistics for 2007

Marriages 23,999
Divorces 7,226

What about those still living in Misery?
 

The most unfortunate people in divorces and separations are the young ones, INNOCENT and DisAdvantaged due to Adults' Pride and Selfishness.

No good work will ever free you from the 'crimes' you have committed against the innocence!

 

KK & CC and a group of friends facilitate The Marriage Course (TMC) at our homes.

Participating couples pay S$100 for 9 week sessions of 2.5 hour each and a High Tea Graduation Party.

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Where to purchase the book in Singapore

1. Kinokuniya Takashimaya

2. MPH Bookstores

  • Raffles City

  • City Link Mall

  • Robinson Road

  • Novena Branch

3. Page One Singapore PL – VivoCity

4. Popular Bookstores – all 28 stores

5. Tecman Christian Bookstore

6. Faith Hope Love

7. COOS - Church Of Our Saviour

8. True Vine Katong

9. Armor Publishing – Order Online

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The Marriage Course

Find out what it means to be married, and stayed married
To Enjoy and Not To Endure

Session 1   BUILDING STRONG FOUNDATIONS
 - Learn to appreciate God's original plans for marriage through an understanding of companionship and the
marriage covenant.
 
Session 2   RELATIONSHIP AND TRUST
 - gain an understanding of he synergistic relationship that is available in marriage and develop
trust and transparency in your relationship.
 
Session 3   ROLES OF HUSBAND AND WIFE
 - obtain insights on the biblical roles of husband and wife as God intended.
 
Session 4   THE POWER OF INFLUENCE
 - learn about the power of influence you have on your spouse and how to
nurture fondness and admiration for each other.
 
Session 5   HANDLING HURTS AND DISAPPOINTMENTS
 - learn how to deal with hurts and disappointments and understand the true meaning of
forgiveness.
 
Session 6   CONFLICT RESOLUTION AND UNITY
 - understand the causes of conflict and learn how to live in
agreement and unity.
 
Session 7   ROMANCE & INTIMACY
 - understand what true intimacy means and gain insight how to establish
restoration of intimacy and sex in your marriage relationship.
 
Session 8   BREAKING CURSES IN THE FAMILY
 - know that we have spiritual authourity and learn how to
break strongholds and curses in the family so that spiritual blessings flow into your family.
 
Session 9   GOD'S CALLING FOR COUPLES
 - learn to rise up to accept the spiritual heritage and charge that God has given to couples and
take ownership of your spiritual calling as a couple.
 
Session 10   GRADUATION PARTY
 - Graduation and Testimony - Tea Party
Celebration!    
 - Invite your friends, parents, relatives, neighbours, 'the kampong'...              
 

How often we meet :
   Frequency : weekly
   Date : Saturdays or Sundays
   Time : Typically from 4.00 pm to 6.30 pm
   Cost : S$100 per couple
   Venue : At the Facilitator's home

contact for The Marriage Course :
kktang@unikk-cc.com tracyyue98@yahoo.com
 

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Link - good resources
  Prayer
 
 

See the latest available DVD - to educate, encourage and empower Marriages

Be entertained!
For goodness sake - do something about your marriage too!

Available now in Singapore!
FireProof the Movie, No More Tears the Book...
Combined POWERFULLY to FIREPROOF Your Marriage

How do you FireProof your marriage?

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Finally, a movie which you can watch in the comfort of your home, available in DVD now!

A small investment for life long enjoyment of Healthy Balance Marriage Life, something your parents (possibly) did not teach you about.

In tropical Singapore, and also among the many Asian nations, we don't necessarily talk about our marriage problems. On the outside, we look good; but on the inside, most of us (the married people) are full of emotional scars.

What are some of these scars?

  • Unfaithful spouse
  • Anger
  • Un-forgiveness
  • Lack of affection from our spouse
  • Lack of or no intimacy
  • Uncontrollable children
  • ...and many more

Do you excel at your work?

Are you getting promotion after promotion because of your sacrifices in the office?

Are you Neglecting the Spouse of your Youth?

Does your children has a Mom or Dad to spend quality time with them?

Does your spouse have someone to share their burdens [ work, children, love, victories and failures just about anything... ]?

'Adam [ men and women created by God and are called Adam ', where are you?

God is calling you back to intimacy with Him. Your marriage will improve when you draw near to Him.

A story acted out to remind ourselves the purpose of being married.

We made our marriage vow to stay together in sickness or in health, for richer or for poorer, TILL death do we part...without a clue what they meant when we are at the verge of Separation, getting Divorced!

We promised to take care of each other, together we produce children ( a blessing from God's grace, mercy and compassion ), and then we either leave them Father-less or Mother-less; choosing to let them live with Step-parents ( some of whom will abuse [abnormal use ] our innocent children ).

We allow our children ( and our ex-spouses ) to get diseases [dis-ease] from sexual abuse in such cases.

What kind of Man or Woman will do that? But we do! We do it out of ignorant and lack of knowledge of why a Man and a Woman will leave their parents and become One Flesh! The very act that God give us the privilege to come together as Man and Wife to multiply and fill the earth!

Before we send our marriage into the burning house [ our family home where our children grow up in the warmth and comfort ]; and also allowing our children to be burnt because of the hardness of our heart [ truly this is what we do when we divorce or separate ]; be Educated, be Encouraged, be Empowered by Francis and Dorothy.

Let their story and testimony [ you can hear them live at your Marriage Enhancement or Marriage Workshops ] reveal to you the truth of God's love for you and your family.

FireProof your marriage in whatever means available to you; be it the FireProof movie, be it at the Marriage Workshops, Marriage Seminars, at our TMC [ The Marriage Course @ COOS ], let the Spirit of Love minister and knocks some sense into your Head, Heart and Mind.

Let your Ears hear, let your Eyes see, and your Heart responds to the Marriage Vow you made before God [ you may not be aware that God was present at when you made the vow ]. To love and to live together as Husband and Wife; till Death do you part.

Let 'No More Tears', a book of an Asian couple, with the courage and love to share their story, to help us improve our marriage.

Francis and Dorothy will be delighted to share their testimony. They have a story to tell to all who are willing to put in efforts to restore their marriage. The care to listen ( www.wecare2listen.com ). No marriages is beyond restoration.

We have been so blessed, our marriage continues to be better after TMC.

Men of Singapore, we know you are brave, understand what Love is. Now it is the time to Stand-Up for Singapore!

If you are do not have Unity at Home, how can you be good for Singapore? How can you lead when you have no leadership at home?

Stand-Up, Stand-Up for your spouse and children!

P.S. If you are in the industry of saving lives ( fire-fighters, medical doctors/nurses, life-guards, etc ), are you doing the same at home, where the people living with you are the most important, next to God?

Many couples with marriage problems are on making progress to make their marriage enjoyable.

Many couple with okay marriages are enjoying their time with their spouses and family further.

TMC is waiting for you, designed for you, a means to fulfill God's purpose for your marriages.

 

 Shalom,
KK & CC
Friends of Francis and Dorothy Chong

 

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More Information for Sharing
AFFAIRS Married People having an Affair :
What is an affair?
 - A sexual relationship between 2 persons (typically male and female) who are not married to each other
INTIMACY Sex + Love = Intimacy
What Woman Wants (Wife) AFECTION This is what studies has shown....    
What Man Wants (Husband) SEX, SEX, SEX!    

OF COURSE THERE ARE MORE TO THIS TO UNDERSTAND MAN and WOMAN

         
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